Monday, June 27

The squat workout I gave away

I paid Easton 2euro this afternoon to sweep and scrub my kitchen floor this afternoon. Was it worth it? Heck yes!

Just in case you too aren't counting down the weeks until our new arrival, I'm approaching 33 weeks pregnant. I'm writing this post for two reasons - but more may pop up like the fact that I should document that I made a multi-course meal AND that it occurred on one of our hottest days so far (85+ with no AC)+(cravings are obeyed 'round these parts). But first, I'm proud of Easton and his willingness to learn new chores and stick with it until it is done lately. He regularly asks how he's doing as well and recently (if there's NO time constraint on him), he's fun to chat with as he works near me. And secondly, as I joked on Facebook to my brother Luke who was excited about doing the best leg workout his weight-lifting bulk could muster, I had to laugh that I paid money to get out of doing 15 minutes of squatting uncomfortably and precariously on a wet floor. And I'm proud of myself for my ingenuity to boot!

On the way home from school today, I asked Easton if he'd be willing to do this chore for me if I paid him. With a field trip to the pool tomorrow with his class, he was more than game to have some cash on hand! Yes, he's still in school but it ends on Thursday thank goodness! I can't wait for the break and not having to make lunches!!! I really need to delegate that one but supervising it sounds almost worse still.

{I have the cutest memory of my brother Luke who was in kindergarten or first grade one time I was home from college. One morning, he was making his lunch at the table while my mom and I were chatting. He was making himself a sandwich with mayo, cheese and pickles. He had taken a table knife and was cutting randomly, odd-sized pickle chunks out of a large pickle rather than slicing it - doing the best his little self could and pretty pleased with himself. I want to say he'd done the same hack job on the cheese but the pickle is crystalized in my memory.}

Back to this evening . . . While I began mixing up hamburger with seasonings for good ol' grilling burgers, Easton was rinsing out his rag and told me he fell in love again today. I asked what she looked like, wondering if it would be another blue-eyed blonde like his first crush. Nope, it was a girl and a boy from India who had visited his class for a bit today checking out the school. Apparently she was beautiful, an exotic knockout I'll bet and I had to smile that his taste is not bound by pale faces. How fun! He doesn't remember her name but thinks she might be in his class next year and then he'll find it out. Then while I peeled and sliced peaches at the table, Morgan and McKay salivated while we sang ABCs and the "I'm Peanut Butter, and you are Jelly" song as Easton sang along from his scrubbing detail. I got to teach Easton how to get the corners and sweep up crumbs with a rag to dump in the trash. Funny how you forget kids don't come programmed to know how to do chores!

Ryan got home and wanted to go on a run so I pleaded with him to take Sasha, the doberman we're dog-sitting across the street, with him. And thankfully he didn't mind us eating without him because I was starving and if I had to endure one more hunger meltdown from McKay in that state it would not have been pretty. Morgan and McKay always approach me as I'm a good ten minutes from finishing dinner crying for food that instant or they're sure they'll die. It drives me insane, particularly because of it's timing and how it delays the whole shebang.

An hour after Easton started on the floor and I started on dinner, the kids and I sat down. Correction, the laborer was paid for job well done and then we sat down to eat. He asked to be paid in dollars, not euro which is good for me but not going to work for him tomorrow at the pool. Hmmm . . .

So once a lady gets the meal made, serving it up in front of a hungry crowd scrutinizing every item placed on their plate makes one seriously second guess every straying from a one pot meal. Too many options for disagreement and meltdowns at a crucial moment when mom just wants to eat a bite while it's still warm, preferably without having to order someone to their room. Here's how it went tonight with minimum input allowed for burger fixings:

Easton - plain bun and burger, decided he loved the peaches with or w/o the yogurt and is not an onion dip fan but please pass more chips. And thanks but no thanks to the pina colada.

McKay - plain burger with ketchup on bun but he added lettuce later, didn't like the peaches with yogurt at all, loved the chips, dip and pina colada.

Morgan - She gets the works on her burger until she can demand otherwise and since I knew I'd be eating at least half of hers that she'd leave uneaten, I made it the way I like it. She threw a fit when I put a little yogurt on her peaches and had to be threatened with bedtime if she didn't stop for us to say the dinner prayer. Liked the chips but turned down the dip to my shock, and sipped on her pina colada indifferently.

We're big on smoothies lately and I'm loving the peaches but not their other admirers who've taken up residence in my kitchen - fruit flies. Ryan and I loved the plain greek yogurt I sweetened with vanilla and a little powdered sugar to top them off and you can't have burgers with out chips and onion dip can you? We actually haven't grabbed a gas tank for our grill yet so I just broiled the burgers in the oven and it worked out real well. I have to admit I really only cook two real meals per week right now but usually one is a new recipe, usually to Ryan's chagrin. Last week I did well on a white chili experiment though and this week it was the burgers and hopefully a successful go at our favorite Vapiano rucola parmesan ravioli recipe I haven't quite mastered yet.

And now I'm off to bed with a happy tummy and a clean kitchen! Nothin' beats that unless you say you're coming over to be me for our morning get-them-out-the-door routine!

Monday, June 20

Sommerrodelbahn

Upon returning from our trip to Ireland with Easton, we picked up Morgan and McKay at the cousins' and enjoyed an evening at Edelweiss Lodge with the promise of great weather the following day. We love these alpine slides - a summer rite of passage when in Bavaria! I didn't ride, but was the honorary photographer obviously. I've already posted these pictures on Facebook, but gotta have them here too - the more official family record.

Here's Ryan and Easton showing us how it's done!

I think McKay liked it. Just maybe a little!

I wondered about Morgan, but she came off the first ride skipping and hopping asking for another ride despite this face and white knuckle grip on Ryan's knees.


And her second ride - the forced grin says, "See, I'm having fun!" Still white knuckle - but she's developing a love for speed!


In fact, the following day the kids were asking to ride their bikes down the hill and into the cul de sac on our road out front. For the first time, I let Morgan ride her big wheel-like tricycle on the road with the boys because I could tell she wouldn't take no for an answer. She was a speed demon and neighbors came out to see her since they heard her high forced laugh as she sped down each time. After the second time down, I made the boys go get me one more helmet for her - I'd never seen her ride with such abandon! She was the happiest girl in the world for that hour!

They truly are best friends and it makes me so happy!


Look at that face, I could just eat her up!

Nothing can deter this boy when an un-interrupted chance to play video games presents itself! This is soooo Easton with the DS and I have many pictures of McKay totally passed out on any given car ride.


UNO, Chores, Monies, Masters and Nuggos

UNO!
Last winter we took a trip to Berlin and I'd remembered the UNO cards which proved great family fun in the evenings. Easton understood the game pretty well and McKay was beginning to grasp it but felt more comfortable teaming up with me or Ryan. Well, no longer baby! McKay is a full-flegded UNO master! Since winter, I will often arrive to pick him up from his German kindergarten and have to wait as he finishes an UNO game with his teachers or classmates. I have loved watching him play there because he uses his German quite freely! I love that it has built his confidence in the language and helped him play with kids outside his usual circle.

Recently McKay's brought his love of the game home and every day last week while Ryan was stateside, the boys would quietly go off to their room for unlimited rounds of UNO. I heard them plotting to wake up early to play together, they'd play after we brought Easton home from school before dinner, but mostly they'd forsake story time to go and play in the evenings before I confiscated the cards and mandated lights out. First thing the kids did with Ryan when he got home today was to play UNO while I finished up dinner. UNO and riding bikes have become McKay's great equalizers with Easton these past couple months. I love to see him beam with pride in his new-found abilities. I'm hoping to add reading on his own by the end of summer - he's real close and seeing pride on that face lights up my days!

CHORES
We had a golden moment last weekend. On Friday night before bed, I mentioned to the boys that before any video game time happened on Saturday, they had to have their room, the play room and living/dining room picked up, sorted, and vacuumed. There was a little moaning, but not too much. The next morning they woke up and did their breakfast and a couple cartoons letting me sleep in. I got up and began buzzing around doing chores when the boys saw 10am approaching - video game time. They told each other it was time to get their work done and went to it. I didn't have to ask them or remind them even once and they worked on the rooms for a little over an hour before finishing. They goofed off here and there as always but I just let them go at their own pace. The boys really did a good thorough job for their ages and I was so impressed by their attitude! It had me rethinking how I frame their chores a little.

For all the griping I do about video games, it is seriously the one thing I can threaten or advocate if I need something to happen! (I'm still a bigger advocate of xBox than the Wii because of the family timer feature where the game shuts off when the time's up.) I must also admit that I had to let them know we had no plans to go anywhere that day either so they didn't feel under a time crunch to finish. Timed deadlines don't work well for them yet unless I'm working right with them and we're working in 2 minute increments to see how much we can accomplish.

"MY MONIES"
The boys are eagerly using some little coin purses / wallets we got them in Greece. With trips to the store and now the pool or other places, the boys are seeing all sorts of opportunities to buy things they'd like. Last summer I posted an extra money job list, but I have a feeling this year's list might actually get some usage. It cracks me up that McKay denotes a coin's worth by it's size. He'll trade a euro for a 50 cent euro or a US quarter. Easton's always willing to help him count out his money and it's a favorite past time especially if they know a trip to the commissary is eminent. So far we haven't had any blatant stealing - PHEW! But we've had plenty of coinage left out and not put away when reminded followed by tears flowing when Morgan refuses to hand over her new found treasures.

YOUR MASTER
Easton's class when to a prehistoric museum and fossil dig last week. He has proudly shared his fossil that he hammered and chiseled down to a manageable size. When gifts were being exchanged tonight for Father's Day and Ryan gave them their surprises from his travels, Easton decided he wanted to give the fossil rock to Ryan. The best, however, was when McKay said, "Dad, you can show it to your Master, do you think your Master will like it?" The boys are always asking Ryan if he'll tell his boss at work this or that and it's just really funny as they try to relate and understand Ryan's days at the office and who he interacts with. Ryan's real fortunate right now to have great bosses that let him work for their clients with very little micromanaging. In fact, Ryan's recently been recognized at different levels within his work for his contributions which is great, but it's even better that he's really enjoying his work and seeing it have an impact!

'NUGGO YOU A BED
I wish I video'd the kids more often at Morgan's age because their conversations are just so darn cute! She asks to snuggle and tells you exactly where and how. "Mom, I 'nuggo you a bed a pee-yo a wankie a ticko" = snuggle on the bed with a pillow, a blanket and tickles. "Dad, I sit a p'ay a you a chair a suggo" = sit and play with you in your chair and snuggle. Morgan loves to rattle off recently seen animals and family members who love her. "A cat a love me. A seep (sheep) a love me, Baaaa. A Kay a love me . . . " -- we don't have any pets yet but they are begging for them! But oh heavens, her car demands! If she's bored, I am told, "A mommy talk a me!" or I am commanded to listen to her sing or talk to me. She hollers out song requests, but usually for "Sitto Souts" = Scripture Scouts. If I roll down my window, she'll demand hers to be down too and to a certain level. I really don't think she'll mind being the only girl of the family for however long that might be! Queen of the roost!

As for me, this pregnancy has been the kindest to me of them yet and I feel so blessed. He's baking away and measuring up as he should. We may have come up with a name but more research and seeing the little guy upon arrival will tell if it sticks. When walking for any stretch, I often laugh at how my posture must accommodate my growing proportions and unavoidably I waddle like a duck. There's just no way around it! I've taken a liking to being able to gently nudge or bounce the kids in the head with my belly and telling them the baby just wanted to say "Hi." It always puts a grin on their face.

While Ryan was stateside for a recent conference (his third this year which is rather astounding as a contractor), I had trouble putting myself to bed. By mid-week, naps were required. My favorite was the afternoon I put Morgan down for a nap and then laid down on the couch to offset gravity and rest. As I was setting my timer for the inevitable nap, McKay asked to snuggle me and we napped for an hour like two peas in a pod! I'm amazed he could fit on our small love seat with me but the closer the better in his book! The other kids are too wiggly, but McKay is the best napping buddy to be found!

We're now gearing up for our final trip before the baby - a full week in Provence, France, with Ryan's brother's family. In my few quiet moments of the day I've been struggling with whether to research the trip or begin writing up our trip to Ireland here. Provence will be hot and dry, but we'll have a pool at the house we're renting. As I've been reading Peter Mayle's book, "A Year in Provence," I've been dreaming of the food and pool accessories to beat the heat as the resident beached whale. In any case, there's no doubt the UNO cards will be a must-pack item!

Saturday, June 18

I've finally posted about our May trip to Greece if you hop down past my Denial post :)