Thursday, March 15

Update from March 15th

The flu has hit us again. And it is lingering. One of the kids we were watching for the weekend came down with it on Saturday night and it hit me Monday before they were picked up. It hit McKay on Monday night and Morgan yesterday but they seem to have energy whereas it's laid me out all week! Jake's either got it or is on another teething round. This is the third time I've gotten the flu since Christmas! Ugh!

On a lighter note, on Tuesday, I set an alarm to wake me up from my nap to go get Easton from school. McKay heard the alarm go off and came to tell me but seeing me sleeping so soundly must have made him forget. He climbed into bed next to me and fell fast asleep. The only reason I was just 10 minutes late picking up Easton was because McKay drooled on my nose which woke me up! Awesome.

A dear friend came to my rescue on Wednesday by coming over and putting dinner in the crockpot and doing two days worth of dishes. She had called to ask if she could take the kids but I didn't want to share our germs. She's pretty much the only person I can think of that I'd let in my house in its current state and she's the one who called. Hallelujah! I was able to make a doctor's appointment to see if I had strep throat. While it was great that they could fit me in, the two times I've now been to this office I've had to wait almost 2 hours to be seen. Talk about torture since I also had all four kids with me! Too bad they don't do online check-in like airlines! Good news is no strep. Bad news is medicine is bad for nursing Jake but this flu has pretty much dried up my milk supply so nursing might be done for. Good thing he doesn't mind bottles and he got the good stuff for seven whole months.

At school Fasching celebration.

Easton had his first cub scout Blue & Gold Banquet on Tuesday night. His best friend Anthony from school has joined the pack with him. He had a great time and loved getting a pinewood derby trophy which he had too much fun playing with and it broke in two before getting home. Who knew trophies weren't supposed to race?

I've challenged Easton to read "The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe." He really wants to buy a book about bird watching and I told him I'd buy him one if he'd read this. He's on chapter 9 now and reads one chapter per night before reading his "fun" books. He reads for a good hour or two each night, our little book worm!

We've had beautiful weather in the high 50-60s this week. I think the only reason Easton hasn't gotten the bug is because the minute he's home from school he's outside jumping on the trampoline or riding bikes. It's like a hunger that must be fed for him right now! Even eating is a chore if he has to stop playing.


McKay has two plantar's warts on his foot. He thinks they've been there since before Christmas and I'm trying to figure out how I haven't seen them because I trim his toenails every so often. He said he didn't tell us earlier because he was afraid he'd have to get a shot. Poor kid! Tonight as I was in a full sweat with a fever breaking, I held him down while Ryan froze them. Holy Cow did he scream! He was so scared it would hurt more than it did he said. He's totally been scrunching up his toes to alleviate pressure on the warts for months! Poor kid!


Morgan is Ms Chatty. She peppers us with questions and her thoughts on all subjects of interest. I find that in 8 minutes in the car, we will have only covered one issue -- what's next. She has me rehearse over and over what's going to happen next "and then what" "and then what" until she can confidently rehearse it back to me. This calls for extreme patience on my part as I tell myself over and over that it's just language acquisition and a good thing. But try doing it with no voice and just a whisper from this cursed flu. Agony. I do love how she often repeats something she says under her breath. It's really cute and it's like you can hear the wheels in her brain turning and learning.

Morgan is also a songbird but singing in tune is not necessary all the time. And actual words are superfluous. (I love that word!) She sings while playing with her toys in her room and just sings whatever she's thinking about. Gotta get some video of it and how she stages her toys!

The picture was taken by Ryan after they had a little daddy daughter date. He took her to the PX to get some ice cream and she got to pick out her "jaguar" and have her face painted. She loved the one on one time with her daddy!


Jake is seven months old this week. Time flies! He is such a happy little guy and so easy to please. He's quite the inch worm scooting all over the floor and mastered pushing himself up into a seated position this past week. I loved watching him figure this out, especially the surprised look on his face the first time he did it! He looked over at me and gave me such a happy grin! Totally awesome! He sits differently than any of the others with one leg out front and one bent behind him. I'm pretty sure he likes the more secure balance this position offers. He tried both legs out in front of him but would sometimes fall over. He still has no desire to figure out how to roll from his back to his front.

Monday, March 5

Battle Zone

At dinner tonight, Easton reported he was sad about school today because no one would play with him at first break. They were playing other things he didn't want to like basketball or cracking rocks. Cracking rocks?! Their school moved into a new building last spring and is still raising funds for playground equipment. They've got wood chips down, a ping pong table, basketball hoop, and big cement slab that the classes get to rotate playing hockey on. He's tired of playing BeyBlades all the time now. But cracking rocks? There's not much to do and honestly, cracking rocks is just something kids do and have been doing since Adam and Eve I think! But the way this came out, it had Ryan and I laughing through dinner because McKay piped in that if they wanted to crack rocks they had to wear gloves and swim goggles because one kid smashed his finger and the nail fell off. And this is the story that saved my evening, lifting the stony embattled face I wore. I'd been ready to call it a night.

I like to think that Mondays are a bright start to a great week of being a good wife, mother and homemaker. By noon I'm weary with efforts on all fronts and feeling pulled in every direction, struggling to stay focused and productive. Jake's been sick all weekend and just wants to be held all day long. Morgan's bored and wants a snack or a movie or a game of hide and seek -- all at the same time and descends into a whining screeching heap when I can't meet one or any of her requests. I should start another load of laundry, read my scriptures for today, find that picture for McKay's class, call the plumber again, schedule the van for that repair work on the door and get new break pads, prepare that stack of boxes to be mailed tomorrow, did I remember to put vinegar on the grocery list, track down the hausmeister's info to order another house key since we're down to the last one . . . did I start the dishwasher and defrosting meat for dinner yet? I'm starving, have I eaten yet today? Before long it was time to pick up the boys and put dinner and FHE in motion.

Otherwise known on a daily basis around here as the bewitching hour. Teasing, shrieking, balloons exploding, eggs cracking, visual aid coloring, lesson reading and weeping, trampoline jumping, piggy back riding, ball kicking (inside?!), dinner over boiling, water overflowing, baby wailing, doors slamming, time out giving . . . and FHE tonight is about not following Satan's wish for us to fight and quarrel. But I had listened to a great BYU Women's Conference talk here on forgiveness that was the inspiration for today. Who needed this FHE most? ME!
"And ye will not suffer your children that they go hungry, or naked; neither will ye suffer that they transgress the laws of God, and fight and quarrel one with another, and serve the devil, who is the master of sin, or who is the evil spirit which hath been spoken of by our fathers, he being an enemy to all righteousness." Mosiah 4:14
One of the examples given in that talk was about Nephi being tied up by his older brothers, left to be eaten by wild beasts until their hearts were softened by Ishmael's daughter, wife, and son. I could spend a lifetime just learning from the book of Nephi! So Nephi forgives his humbled brothers "frankly", easy-peasy end of story. Put that one on the "becoming" list too.

Life's not necessarily busy these days, just full. I've had a couple friends recently tell me to give them a call to hang out when bored. I remember bored but can't remember when I felt it last. I keenly remember feeling bored often when it was just Easton and me at home and how I was dying for any chance to get out of the house and do stuff with friends. Now I love days when I don't have to leave the house. (Until I can escape alone.) I feel like I'm running a full court press with no subs to relieve me. But the weightier thoughts settle on my family's spiritual welfare. Am I doing enough with the time I'm given? The evening shift is the hardest for sure because we're all spent!

All day my scrambled thoughts kept coming back to how I'm the one setting the tone and falling short in our home. It is so frustrating to me that I can feel Satan working on me and winning. Today he and I were doing battle minute by minute and he seemed to win more often than I did when it really counted. I hope I get bonus points for surviving and resolving to fight another day? Game on!