Tuesday, January 25

Istanbul - Bosporus Cruise and the New District

Fishermen on the Galata Bridge that connects Historic Istanbul to New Istanbul.

Our second day in Istanbul was bright and sunny with rain promised for the other two days of our stay. We took advantage of the weather by taking a boat ride up the Bosporus Strait to catch a glimpse of the Black Sea and to set foot in Asia.

Using our Rick Steves guide book, we kept ourselves entertained as we passed large mosques, palaces, Eur-Asian bridges, mansions, fishing vessels of all sizes, military academies, ancient fortresses and the like. And many Turkish flags flapping in the breeze.

Dolmabahce Palace built in 1700s to keep up with the Jones' - Paris's Versaille.


Fortress looks amazing on this left bank as you approach the second bridge.
It was key to the impending sacking of Christian Constantinople by the Muslim Turks.

You can barely see the workers on the left in their green overalls.


Ryan was eager to try the RS recommended local yogurt pedaled at one of the docks and he loved it. It was a strong, thick yogurt with a healthy tablespoon of powdered sugar. He liked it so much he had another on the return trip. There were many around us watching in wonder and I looked back because it's always fun to see what sorts of tour books people from all over carry.

Jason the Argonaut's crashing rocks.
The currents are still so strong that these shallow rocks in the middle of the strait
warrant an official warning presence. Also a nice view of the opposing European and Asian coasts.

It took us 1.5 hours to get to the end at Anadolu Kavagi where we immediately stretched our legs on the 20 minute hike up to the old fortress to get some great views of the Black Sea.

There were interesting makeshift “parks” and paths up to the fortress as locals have begun to vie for the tourist traffic. The town lies in wait for the boat and then everything kicks into high gear. There's a small Turkish naval observation base there so we had to aware of their signage. We walked past the housing barracks where some young boys were out on their playground goofing off together. As we walked back down into the village, it sure was interesting to see so many vendors and the restauranteurs out in force.

Turkish version of donut holes, tasty lokma. Batter is fried then dropped into a vat of syrup before being scooped up onto a plate and sprinkled with cinnamon. Yum! Most restaurants touted their fish sandwiches and such which made me gag. Ryan and I had our lokma and sat at a cafe to people watch with some nice hot chocolate.

I really enjoyed the nice views of Historic Istanbul’s skyline at sunset as we returned.

A shot of the boat we were on:


From the dock, we meandered across Galata Bridge to see the fishermen up close. As you can see, they line the entire length all day long.

There were plenty of these “tackle shops” with pole rigging, lures, hooks and what not. The man on the left is selecting his pick of worms next to the catches of the day.

What appeared to be a catch-and-grill stand on Galata Bridge.

Once across the bridge, we hiked up to the Galata Tower - seriously these are major hills!!! And then to the New District - Istiklal Caddesi, the bustling, hip part of town with shops and restaurants. If we had to compare it to another city we’ve been to, it’s probably most like Madrid in its grittiness but so different in its own way.

We enjoyed a nice dinner outside under heaters – Ryan had a nice gurmet steak and I had chicken fajitas. There were all sorts of local fare on the menu but when I saw the fajitas I just had to have them! Here's Ryan with another fried potato snack. They spiral cut the potato, stuck it on a stick spread out and dropped it in the fryer.


And as a minor sidenote, we got to experience a new currency. The new Turkish lira.
1 TL = $0.65
2 TL = 1 euro

Sunday, January 23

One big happy scheme

The holidays make me crave home. I don't want to travel during the holidays, I just want to be with all those fun people I love so much at home. Living so far away doesn't help. So I devised a self-serving scheme after our huge family Christmas Skype call - why not have a monthly FHE together on Skype?!

I had visions of a beautiful Family Home Evening that happened once when I'd been home after college. Our lesson turned into a testimony meeting, the Spirit was strong as we shared our feelings about the Gospel and I felt so close to them. These 9 wonderful siblings of mine were all grow'd up and my parents' testimonies resonated deeper. Time gets away from us so quickly! I long to hear about the experiences that are shaping their souls, to know them deeper than our goings on because I love them so much. And now we have so many new spouses in the Bare Bunch that I want to know better too!

So we did it yesterday, complete with Mom getting out the calendar for graduation dates this spring!

We prayed, sang Popcorn Popping, everyone shared a happy moment from their week. Sure there were technical difficulties here and there and I'm not good at leading meetings, but the end result was just what I had hoped. Sharing of testimonies happened and hearts were touched.

Our lesson was from the Preach My Gospel manual - God is our loving Heavenly Father. I had felt impressed earlier in the week to ask my dad and my brother-in-law to share part of their conversion stories pertaining to this. It was wonderful, simply wonderful. My brother-in-law was first and I have to say he made my day and my tear ducts go to work! I haven't gotten to know him very well yet but knew from my sister who married him and my parents, how much he loves the gospel. I only know the gregarious guy who adores my sister and it was so lovely to see into his soul. It makes me so happy for Brooks, like teary happy! All day long today!


John spoke of the warmth of Heavenly Father's love he was encompassed in as he was taught by the missionaries at age 12. How he felt that warmth as he continued on the gospel path through baptism, going to the temple, serving a mission, and being married in the temple to my sister. His heart was so soft, like a big teddy bear and I just wanted to hug him!

Dad's testimony was wonderful, he can always get me to cry! My dad joined the church in his early twenties after investigating other faiths and dating my mom who was LDS. He talked about an experience during this time with his brother on a motorcycle and pleading prayers to Heavenly Father for their safety and that they wouldn't be pulled over by the police because of the likely consequences. "But, sure enough . . ." they were stopped by a cop. But that cop happened to be an old high school buddy of the brother's and was able to sternly warn him of the gravity of his poor choices like probably no one else could have. My Dad's testimony of our loving Heavenly Father has grown through experiences where he's put the doctrines, commandments, and principles of the gospel into practice and seen them bear fruit.

My testimony was of our Heavenly Father's greatest gift - his Only Begotten Son who paid the price for our sins, conquered death and allows us to return to our loving Heavenly Father. I shared how just that morning McKay had hopped back into the van unasked to let Morgan out of her car seat when she hollered at being left. Because he loved her. Morgan was stuck and her older brother came to her rescue so she could go home just as our Savior did for us. We are so blessed to be so loved.

And then we sang "I Lived in Heaven" and I cried some more as my boys, my nieces' and nephew's voices sang out. I'm sorry, but it just couldn't be beat - I'm still on a high days later! But wait, Dad had an activity! Get a balloon, stand on one foot and you must keep the balloon in the air with just one hand! Catch 20 people doing that at once on Skype and you've got quite a show!

Thanks everyone for being such great sports with my scheme!!!

Thursday, January 13

Books and stuff

I fell off the scripture reading wagon a few days. It smarted a bit. I let myself become distracted, overwhelmed by being a single mom for the week while Ryan's soaking up CA sun - er . . . I mean attending meetings, and just being plain tuckered out! We were all in bed tonight at 7:30 - that's how exhausted we are.

But you know what I love? The resolve to jump back on the scripture wagon tonight made me a better mother this evening. I felt inspired to handle a regular round of the boys' fighting over a book differently. I had already settled into my cozy bed to start my scripture reading when the fight erupted. Hard hearts, hollered tattling. And yet after my instant flame of ire was lit, it was replaced by the light of inspiration. Round one of mediation worked for the younger child who just wanted big brother's attention in the first place, but big brother held out until round three before he softened. Long days at school sure work a number on kids! And yet, an hour later just as I typed this out he came and asked, "Mom, do you know where my Book of Mormon is?" Ahhhh . . . icing on the cake.

Today I went to the first playgroup I've been invited to since living here. A mother from Morgan's nursery class invited classmates and their moms over for what will become a regular playgroup. Most of our kids have struggled with the drop-off and so this mother hoped that by familiarizing her son with his classmates, he'd do better. I was so glad she's gotten it going because I realized how much I miss that regular interaction with other women and the wealth of knowledge and support we glean from one another. Morgan loved it and was thoroughly worn out, taking a great nap without a tantrum this afternoon.

My reading attention is so splintered right now. I've got my Book of Mormon reading which I'm trying to again reassert as numero uno but it's had competition these last few days. Our ward's ladies' book group is reading the Scarlet Pimpernel which I've always wanted to read. I'm enjoying it after scriptures, but before I doze off into dream land which makes finishing it by next week's meeting a bit of a stretch. Then I also began listening to William Shirer's monumental study, The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich: A History of Nazi Germany. It's soooo good! This huge book is so daunting in hard copy but on audiobook, it's just my cup of tea! In the past two days I've gotten through the first six hours while doing chores and driving to/from Easton's school twice a day. I find myself rewinding often to catch important root philosophies, cultural nuances, and historical tidbits. Oh how I wish I had listened to this book years ago to answer my wonderings!

{ I've recently come to the conclusion that I crave audiobooks not only because I love to learn and to fill monotonous housewifery time, but also because I grew up listening to my dad tell me stories a lot. Camp outs and hikes were for outdoor tales, usually bears. Road trips . . . whatever he's read or heard but I'll always remember the Dan Storm Testaments. But any chance we have extended time together - he's got a story to tell and I love it! I've always wished I was a better story teller, but I still crave his stories. Audiobooks is just one way I satiate myself. And he got it from his dad, my Papa. Love you, Dad!!! }

I don't know if it's legal, but in the car I put an ipod earbud in one ear to enjoy my book while the kids enjoy their Scripture Scouts cds. Totally still heard and responded to an ambulance yesterday so I'm feeling like I'm safe and just as alert. I love those Scripture Scouts and that the kids will melt down if I don't turn them on but I just can't take another episode or my brain will explode! For my sake, on the way to school in the morning we listen to the New Testament Stories program done by the Mormon Channel on my ipod/radio tuner plug-in. They're great from a parent's standpoint, but the kids just tolerate it and don't crave it like SS. They're addicted. SS and any Skippy John Jones audiobook!

I found a LDS gal who blogs and reviews books and also has friends that post reviews. She's a voracious reader always searching out clean reads although historical fiction is not her favorite genre and I truly love them most of the time. I've only read her stuff for about a week but her review of "Little Women" was spot on so I'm giving her a go. She's also a homeschooler and reviews lots of children's books too. I love finding new stuff to read that I know is safe!

Tuesday, January 11

Istanbul - Blue Mosque and a Carpet Salesman

Hagia Sophia - "Divine Wisdom"
Built in 532 AD as a Christian Church, 1453 converted to a mosque, then a 1930s museum exhibiting both faiths!

On New Year's Day, Ryan and I flew to Istanbul for a few days. Ryan's brother Eric got us in the mood playing They Might Be Giants classic "Istanbul was Constantinople." Ha-Ha! Actually, riding in his BMW company car was the highlight! Truly awesome even from the back seat!

On some of our travels, we've seen tv commercials for Turkish Airlines that have always had us smirking for their sing-song schmoozy jingle, "We are Turkish Airlines. We are globally yours." But we were impressed on that initial flight with the meal and roomy seats. The return flight didn't deliver on either of these, but it was a nice way to start our getaway. From Munich, it was a 2 1/2 hour flight. Here's some initial impressions of Istanbul:

- Flying into a land of minarets! Just think if every LDS chapel spire in Utah had a very tall minaret to dot the skyline! Five times a day, these minarets are used to broadcast the sing-song call to prayer. This was Ryan's first time to a Muslim country and I enjoyed seeing his wonder at the sheer number of mosques and minarets on our descent.

- Our hotel shuttle driver sure liked to push the pedal to the metal from the airport to the Historic District! It was amazing how he deftly maneuvered tight streets in downtown while gunning the engine! Most buildings are in various stages of crumble it seems – it’s old and the streets are pretty dirty! There were plenty of nice buildings and housing further from downtown.

- Western Europe does cathedrals like the Muslim world does mosques – beautifully ornate and massive! The historic part of Istanbul has about 7 grand mosques or edifices impressively dotting the skyline. The drive from airport to Historic Istanbul goes along the coast and so we saw lots of people walking the waterfront, huge ships everywhere, regular kiddie playgrounds everywhere, young men and boys playing soccer on fenced in “courts”.

- Germans don’t display their flag much so it was quite a change to see Turkey’s flag waving in the breeze everywhere. Most were impressively large along the coastline which makes sense as we considered all the international waterway traffic that passes through this Bosphorus Strait.

- Thanks to airport restrictions on traveling with water bottles, we were both dying of thirst by the time we got to the hotel. We drank a cup of hotel tap water and Yuck! You buy your water here the front desk said. Thanks, that would have been useful information when we checked in. Ryan never got sick from brushing his teeth with it but I wasn't that brave. I’ve had a bad experience in the past catching a bug from tap water so I didn’t chance it from then on.


- Street food cart vendors sold corn on the cob, cheese naan, roasted chestnuts, and sesame seed bread rings the size of a big pretzel. Restaurants tout their fresh baked naan (flat) bread by having two traditionally dressed women rolling it out and baking it right inside the front entrance window on a big round convex drum-looking heated griddle.

On the way to our first sight – the Blue Mosque – a nice local began chatting with us on his way there for prayer. Ahmet soon became our self-appointed guide and we later discovered . . . carpet salesman! Luckily he was just an apprentice and hadn’t refined his pushy sales pitches yet. We figured it out when we exited the mosque and he was eagerly waiting for us outside. We tried to skirt away by telling him we were headed to see the Byzantine Underground Cistern (A.D. 500) before it closed soon, but he diligently led us there and never stopped sharing all the finer tour guide spiels. Now we started getting worried about his expectations and what it would take to get away!

In the underground Cistern that fed this area with water for centuries fed by canals and aquaducts, tourists fell for the photo op to dress up in posh sultan and harem garb.


As we exited the Cistern, Ahmet was again waiting for us outside. We tried to let him down easy because we truly aren’t in the market for a Turkish carpet, but he got us to the shop to take his card before we ran off to go eat. We must have been a big disappointment after the 2 ½ hours he spent wandering with us. We learned our lesson – those carpet salesmen know their trade!

A little about the Blue Mosque, it was built in 1609 right next to Hagia Sophia. It's known as the Blue Mosque because of the beautiful white tile painted with a lot of blue Arabic script, flowers and geometric designs. Weathly rulers liked to big massive mosques to show off their wealth. Ryan said nonchalantly, “Not blue enough but, pretty cool."

We had to remove our shoes before entering and I had to cover my head with a scarf. Ahmet drew our attention to the first timers holding up the line as they tried to open the plastic bag to put their shoes in before entering.


This last one is a view towards the mihrab, just right of the column on the left. The mihrab is a decorated niche that angles the people towards Mecca. There's a slightly raised platform there for the imam (preacher) to give sermons although he also speaks from the staircase which is in the middle of this picture. He only ascends 3/4 up the staircase out of respect for Muhammed, their esteemed holiest prophet. I find Muhammed's life fascinating coming from an LDS perspective.

Our pictures make it look brighter and bluer than it did in the afternoon light. It had nice carpet throughout rather than the eclectic layers of carpets I remember from the Holy Land mosques I visited in 1997. The carpet designs help designate where people stand and kneel to pray. It looked so old and run down and made me want to see what a regular neighborhood mosque looked like.

I first saw the low hanging ancient chandeliers and then the cordoned off women’s area (men and women are segregated during their services). I felt a wave of reverence wash over me as I saw the women doing their prayers and reading, particularly the young ones behind the women’s screen with their nose in their Koran against a window seat.

We had a good but not fabulous Indian curry dinner overlooking the Hagia Sophia skyline. On the way home, we stopped in at a shop so Ryan could get his baklava and Turkish delights fix – he had to pace himself! And then we fell for another carpet salesman on the way home. We’re just not used to being so warmly accosted by vendors at every turn who holler out asking where you're from and so on! Between restaurants and carpet salesmen vying for your attention, it gets overwhelming fast! Ryan was able to let loose and have some fun joking with a salesman who was really trying to push some pretty, but low quality, tapestry and pillow cases in colors I liked. We were finally able to walk away, but were not invited to come for tea tomorrow! Rats!

Friday, January 7

Life: Straight or a Strait?

I have set a goal to read the Book of Mormon by Easter. I’ve never set a time-sensitive scripture goal before because I feared it would lessen my ability/desire to study, to ponder. Silly, silly me - I should know better! I declare here that I’m thoroughly enjoying this new journey and perhaps every now and then will share tidbits.

I've always found it interesting how in 1 Nephi 8:20 its the "strait and narrow" and not "straight and narrow" path that leads to the Tree of Life. Ryan and I were able to visit Istanbul, Turkey last week and take a boat trip up the Bosporus Strait. After the curvy, strong counter-currents and treacherous jutting rocks of the Bosporos Strait - it makes for some nice parallels!

Being a bit of a word nerd, here's some definitions I found:

Straight suggests no curves; extending or proceeding in one single direction, without bends, curves, irregularities, or deviations.

Strait suggests a difficult situation or one that involves hardship.

What is life if not a strait and the antithesis of straight?! Put that together with the early adversities, discouragements, and disappointments faced by Lehi's family as they left their comfy digs in Jerusalem, and how each family member dealt with it. Laman and Lemuel bemoaning the hardness of the task to get the golden plates, Sariah lamenting how her husband's prophetic call involved sacrificing her comfort and possibly her sons, while Lehi stays his ground encouraging everyone and Nephi goes to the Lord for better understanding and a will to move forward not looking back.

These chapters have me reflecting on how I view and handle the curves and currents of my days. How quick I am to be discouraged when my efforts don't pan out early with huge success and praises sung from the rooftops. Call it an attitude adjustment I hope sticks. It makes 1 Nephi 3:7 poignant in a newer way since I'd always viewed that scripture as an obedience scripture, not a "hope when you're down" scripture.

"And it came to pass that I, Nephi, said unto my father: I will go and do the things which the Lord hath commanded, for I know that the Lord giveth no commandments unto the children of men, save he shall prepare a way for them that they may accomplish the thing which he commandeth them."

I daily lose sight of the importance and focus my work in my home needs to have. But the way is clear and I do have help, I just have to use it more often! Ryan and I have again recently been drumming up ideas for better evenings with our family. All good things seem to require a plan and diligent effort if they will be accomplished. I love having an insightful partner on the journey with me!

A quick side note: In what felt like a long shot chance to stifle the moaning when I said we needed to clean the house yesterday before the TV or games were turned on, I shared Nephi and his brother's experience/attitudes getting the golden plates. Easton totally ate it up! McKay was less convinced until he remembered vacuuming was part of the deal! [HUGE thanks to Ryan for the birthday gift that keeps on giving! Who said a girl doesn't want appliances as gifts?! When my slaves are happy, so am I!] Oh yes, and there may or may not have been choruses of the Murmur song with "grumble, grumble, grumble, grumble, YUCK!" while we worked. Go Scripture Scouts!

Thursday, January 6

A quiet Christmas

We enjoyed a nice quite Christmas here at home all snowed in. Everyone seemed pleased with their gifts although we won't mention some that felt trumped by another's gift idea ;)

My newest, most favorite chocolate confection. This is a horrible picture, but I didn't get another before they were devoured over the past week. So imagine with me . . . an outer dusting of bitter chocolate gives way to a melt-in-your-mouth cool chocolate truffle the likes of which I have never known better! After Ryan brought a sampling of them home from the Tubingen Chocolate Festival, I just had to track down where they might be sold locally! Mission accomplished!

A much needed addition to Ryan's warm weather attire.

Easton's gifts were literary or game oriented like this Sonic action figure.

Morgan is a great mommy to her newest doll that slurps and giggles like a baby should. It was love at first sight! Now if I could just smudge my wardrobe choice out of the picture I'd be pleased as punch.
McKay has been begging for a bow and arrow and was so excited!
He's become a good shot at things on the backs of doors in the apartment.

On Christmas Eve we acted out the Nativity with the following cast:

Easton - Narrator, Angels and Star
Morgan - Mary
Daddy - Joseph & donkey
McKay - Shepherds
Mom - Wisemen


All went well until the Shepherd tried to hold baby Jesus. Mary is quite possessive and doting in our version.


One of the highlights of our day was the big Bare video conference via Skype!


How fun to see almost all my siblings and hear about their Christmas - even my brother Matt serving his LDS mission in Brasil!


Alright, now down to business -- our recent trip to Istanbul!